R. Stein Wexler

Wahlfamilie

2022

Berlin, Germany

In 2023, construction began on a queer and lesbian senior living facility, RuT Wohnen, at 9-11 Berolinstraße, Berlin, Germany. In the project, members of the RuT community were invited to recall a recipe which evokes a memory or feeling of “chosen family.” They wrote down the recipe on a piece of paper along with a description of the memory that dish evokes. On September 16th, participants cooked the dish and brought it to a community celebration at the future site of the RuT home. The recipes were printed on white fabric and hung around the site of the future home.

Institutional support: Senatsverwaltung für Justiz, Vielfalt und Antidiskriminierung; Landesstelle für Gleichbehandlung gegen Diskriminierung; HMS Stiftung für queere Bewegungen; Fonds Soziokultur; RuT Wohnen e. V.

Recipes were hung around the space where the home will stand, claiming the area as one of queer and lesbian visibility and ownership.

Recipes were hung around the space where the home will stand, claiming the area as one of queer and lesbian visibility and ownership.

A joyful gathering celebrating notions of chosen home, those with walls and those without; and notions of chosen family, whether tied by blood or by love.